“You do realise Mum’s had a tough time of it, don’t you?” Oliver tossed the car keys in his palm without even glancing my way. “She’s been raising seedlings. Is it really such a bother to help out for three days? It’s the same old story every time.”
I stood by the open boot, staring at the three enormous bags I’d packed myself. One held the kids’ clothes, another warm jumpers for the evenings, and the third bed linen—because my mother-in-law refused to let us use her spare set from the dresser.
Our five-year-old, Alice, was already fidgeting in the back seat, clutching her stuffed rabbit, while Tom, who’d just turned eight, was gloomily flipping through a comic. Ahead of me lay another weekend that was supposed to be a well-earned break after a forty-hour week in the accounts office, but instead promised to turn into voluntary hard labour.
“Three days of help means we show up, cook a barbecue, and water a couple of veggie patches in the evening, Oliver,” I said, my voice steady. “But when I’m bent over strawberry plants from morning till night while Anne inspects every single bush, that’s something else entirely.”
My husband irritably opened the driver’s door and slid in behind the wheel.
“Fine, let’s just go. We’ll sort it out when we get there. Things always seem simpler on the spot.”
I got into the passenger seat, buckled up, and stared at the road. The car pulled away, leaving our quiet commuter estate behind. Ahead lay two hours on the battered A-road, sweltering heat, and the nagging feeling that I was once again caving in without a fight.
Nine years of marriage had taught me that arguing with Oliver about his parents was like trying to stop a train by waving at it. Far easier to agree, grit your teeth through the two days, and then spend three recovering in the city flat. But this time something inside me was stubbornly resisting—like a thin thread stretched to its limit.
The journey dragged on forever. The kids started getting restless halfway through. Tom complained it was stuffy, Alice dropped her rabbit between the seats and sniffled quietly. Oliver got annoyed, turned up the radio blaring some old pop hits, and kept overtaking lorries with sharp lane changes.
“Did we really have to bring all this stuff?” he snapped, glancing in the rear-view mirror. “Mum said she has old gardening clothes. Why did you drag those huge bags?”
“Because your mum’s old gardening clothes are greasy 54-size housecoats that are impossible to move in,” I said, trying to keep calm. “And the kids need clean spares.”
“Oh, give it a rest. You always look for problems where there aren’t any. Mum’s been waiting—she’s baked sorrel pies—and you’re driving up there looking like you’re off to the gallows.”
I said nothing. There was no point arguing. Oliver believed that a weekend at his parents’ country house was the best thing that could happen to us. For him, it was a return to childhood—wandering around in old shorts, drinking fresh milk from the neighbour’s cow, and having no responsibilities.
For me, it had become an endless exam for the title of ‘perfect daughter-in-law’, which I failed every single time, no matter how hard I tried.
When the car turned onto a gravel lane, the suspension rattled dully. We passed grey fences, thickets of sea buckthorn, and identical prefab houses. Our country house—or rather, my in-laws’—stood out with its green fence and a huge greenhouse that loomed like a futuristic dome.
Anne was already at the gate. She wore a blue polka-dot apron and held garden shears. Next to her, on a low bench under an apple tree, sat her husband, Peter, slowly fixing an old transistor radio.
“Finally here!” Anne opened the gate before Oliver had even turned off the engine. “Did you get caught in traffic? Come on, unload quickly—lunch is getting cold. Emily, dear, you look pale. That London life has worn you out. Never mind, the fresh air here will soon have you back in shape.”
She smiled, but her eyes were already scanning my cotton T-shirt and light jeans. I knew that look. The inspection had begun: how much did the clothes cost, why were they creased, why had I bothered with makeup for the countryside.
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Lunch was conducted under Anne’s direction. She ladled out meatball soup while issuing instructions for the evening. Oliver ate heartily, smacking his lips and nodding along.
“Ollie, you’ll need to prop up the fence near the raspberries—it’s leaning,” Anne said, dabbing her lips with a napkin. “And Emily and I will tackle the beds. The weeds have shot up after the rain—it’s shocking. If we don’t weed today, you won’t be able to get near the onions tomorrow.”
“Mum, I was actually thinking of taking the kids to the river,” Oliver said hesitantly, reaching for a second pie. “It’s so hot—let them have a swim.”
“The river’s not going anywhere,” Anne cut him off. “The water’s still cold—you’ll give them a chill. Plenty of time. Work first, then play. Emily, have you finished? Put the plates in the sink and let’s go. I’ve set out the tools for you.”
I looked at my husband, hoping for support. But Oliver was studying the pattern on his tea mug. He always did that—retreated into the shadows, leaving me to deal with his mother alone.
Half an hour later, I was on all fours between long rows of onions. The sun was merciless, burning the top of my head even through the cap. The soil was dry and clumpy; the weeds clung stubbornly, snapping off at the roots. Beside me, Anne had settled into a plastic chair. She wasn’t weeding herself—the doctor had told her not to bend over because of her blood pressure—but she provided close supervision.
“Dig deeper, Emily, deeper. You need to pull the root out with the flesh, not just nip the tops. In three days it’ll all be overgrown again. And don’t rush—do it properly. We’re growing this for ourselves, for the grandchildren. Don’t you want the children to eat their own veggies, without chemicals?”
I yanked out a large dandelion in silence. Soil lodged under my nails. My fresh manicure, done on Thursday evening at no small expense, had ceased to exist within the first ten minutes. A slow anger began to simmer in my chest. Not at Anne—she’d always been like this, you couldn’t change her. At my husband. At myself. At the fact that I was sitting here again, in this dust, doing someone else’s bidding while my own weekend plans went up in smoke.
“Mummy, can I have some water?” Alice ran up to the bed, red-faced from the heat. She’d tried to play with the neighbour’s dog, but it was lazily sleeping in the shade of the house and wasn’t interested.
“Get it from the house—there’s a jug on the table,” I said, wiping sweat from my forehead with the back of my hand.
“No need to run into the house—you’ll track in dirt,” Anne intervened. “Ollie! Fetch your daughter some water from the well. And get some for Emily—look, her face is beetroot.”
Oliver, who was lazily nailing a board to the fence, put down the hammer and ambled towards the well. His pace was so unhurried that I wanted to throw a hoe at him.
By Saturday evening, my back was refusing to straighten. My muscles ached from the unaccustomed labour, and my palms burned. We’d moved on to the carrot beds, which required delicate weeding—the tiny shoots were easily mistaken for weeds.
“Good heavens, who weeds like that?” Anne got up from her chair and came closer, peering at my work. “You’ve pulled out half the carrots, Emily! Look—there’s a gap, and another gap. I asked you to be more careful. Are your thoughts somewhere else?”
I froze, holding a fistful of grass. Something snapped inside me. Calm, I told myself. Just calm. She’s an elderly woman. She thinks she’s helping.
“Anne, I’m trying to be careful. The shoots are very small—they’re hard to see.”
“If you can’t see, you should wear glasses,” Anne snapped. “My Oliver always weeded these carrots perfectly when he was little. And you’re a grown woman—can’t manage basic tasks. You modern girls are useless around the house. All you know how to do is spend money in your salons.”
Oliver came up behind me. He’d just got back from the hardware store with his father, carrying some boards. In his hand was an ice cream—one. He was already finishing it, licking white drips off his fingers. He’d bought the kids lollipops. Me, of course, no one had thought of.
“Mum, what’s all the fuss about?” he said lazily, sitting on the porch steps. “Emily’s doing fine. She’s just not used to it.”
“Exactly—not used to it!” Anne seized on his support. “And she needs to get used to it. Otherwise she’ll turn up, sit on a deckchair with a book, and think she’s at a hotel. But here you have to work. Your father and I have kept this plot going for thirty years—we’ve tilled every inch with our own hands. And she can’t be bothered to bend her back.”
I slowly got to my feet. I brushed the clods of earth from my trousers. A sharp pain shot through my lower back, but I didn’t even wince. I looked at Anne—at her face of genuine indignation. I looked at Oliver—he was still sitting on the steps, finishing his cornet, staring at his phone, completely checked out. For him, this conversation was just background noise.
“I’m done,” I said quietly.
“What do you mean, done?” Anne threw up her hands. “And who’s going to do the other three beds? They forecast rain tonight—by tomorrow it’ll all be overgrown!”
“You are, Anne. Or your son. I’m not touching those beds again. Ever.”
I turned and walked towards the house. Every step was an effort; my legs felt filled with lead. But inside, a strange, unfamiliar sense of liberation was growing. As if I’d been carrying a heavy, handleless suitcase for years and had simply let go.
Inside, I went straight to the room where we slept. I pulled the bags from under the bed and began packing. Kids’ T-shirts, shorts, bed linen—all flew into the bags in a jumble.
Oliver appeared in the doorway. His face was bewildered, even a little scared.
“Emily, what are you doing? Mum’s in there taking pills for her heart. Why did you speak to her like that? She’s an old woman—she’s got a weak heart.”
“Your mother is full of energy, Oliver,” I said, zipping up the first bag. “She’ll dig up that garden and outlive us all. But my back is killing me. Get the kids. We’re leaving.”
“Leaving? It’s Saturday evening! The traffic on the ring road is horrendous. Have you lost your mind? You’re making a circus out of a few carrots?”
“I’m not making a circus. I’m going home. If you want, stay here with your mother and the carrots. The car’s mine, and I’ve got the keys. I’m taking the kids.”
Oliver tried to block my way, standing in the doorway.
“You’re not going anywhere. Enough of the histrionics. Calm down—we’ll have dinner, a cup of tea, and everything will be fine. Mum will cool off—she forgives quickly.”
I looked at Oliver. Calmly, without the panic that usually overtook me during our rows. And I remembered what my friend Laura had said: “He’ll never take your side.” To him, I was always second best: Mum came first, and I was supposed to put up with it and toe the line.
“Move, Oliver.”
I picked up two heavy bags and walked into the hallway. The kids were sitting on the sofa in the living room, quiet, sensing something out of the ordinary was happening.
“Tom, Alice—put your shoes on. We’re going home to London.”
“Yes!” Tom jumped off the sofa, not even trying to hide his happiness. The country life had worn him out too, under his grandmother’s constant supervision—no running on the grass, no picking berries without permission.
Anne stood on the veranda, lips pursed. Peter behind her silently smoked, staring at the trees. No one tried to stop us; no one begged us to stay.
Oliver followed me all the way to the car. He was still trying to stop me.
“You’re making a huge mistake, Emily,” he said quietly, as I loaded the bags into the boot. “Mum won’t forget this. You’re ruining the relationship over nothing.”
“You know what, Oliver? You don’t care about my feelings,” I said, closing the boot and turning to face him. “I’m never coming to your parents’ country house again. That’s final. If you want to visit them, go ahead—every weekend if you like. You can take the kids if they want to come. But I’m done.”
I got behind the wheel and started the engine. Oliver stood by the fence, hands in his pockets. He looked like a lost little boy whose favourite toy had been taken away. He didn’t get in the car. He stayed at the house, next to his mother, who was already scolding him from the veranda with wild gestures.
We drove out through the gate. In the rear-view mirror, I watched his figure shrink, along with the green fence and the enormous greenhouse. There was a slight ache in my chest from knowing that this evening had changed everything.
Our marriage wouldn’t fall apart tomorrow. We’d find a way to go on. But the old Emily, who was ready to swallow any insult for the sake of a fragile family peace—she no longer existed.
I pressed the accelerator, and the car moved along the gravel road, carrying us away from that foreign country house where I had spent far too long trying to live by someone else’s rules.
“Mummy, are we never going to Grandma’s again?” Alice asked quietly from the back seat, pulling me from my thoughts.
I glanced in the rear-view mirror. My daughter was hugging her rabbit, while Tom waited attentively for my answer.
“You can go with Dad if you like, whenever you want,” I said, shifting gear and turning onto the main road. “But for me, weekends now mean something else.”
Ahead, the lights of a petrol station appeared. I pulled in to buy the kids juice and grab a coffee for myself. I still had over a hundred kilometres to drive home, and I planned to take that journey without any unnecessary rush.
