My husband has a mistress. Ive never had any objections to their relationship. In fact, I even arranged to meet this woman. I didnt feel any resentment towards her and thought it would be pointless to be angry with her because of my husband.
We ended up having a good chat. She turned out to be a genuinely pleasant woman. After our conversation, it almost felt as if we had known each other for years.
Later on, my husband and his mistress decided they wanted a weddingnot a real one, of course, just a little ceremony for themselves. I didnt mind at all and helped out with all the arrangements. I helped her choose a lovely bridal dress, and she gave me advice on what sort of evening dress might suit me. We agreed the ceremony should be held at our house. I acted as the witness. Everything felt very realexcept for the fact that the registrar was missing.
On the day of the wedding, we got up early, made the last bits of preparation, and started getting ourselves ready. I helped her into her dress. Then they exchanged vows and rings. The newlyweds shared a passionate kiss.
Their wedding night took place right in our home. Once my husband had fallen asleep, she came into the kitchen where we sat together talking late into the night. It was a warm and friendly conversation. As it turned out, we had quite a lot in common.
This whole situation never made me feel humiliated in the slightest. In fact, Id go so far as to say I feel happy. After all, she and I spend a lot of time together, and we always have plenty to talk about. Now Ive got someone to go shopping with, visit the park, or go for a swim. Honestly, I think our relationship will end up being far more important than any with a man.
What do you think about this sort of friendship?
