Lets have a little chinwag about whether its entirely normal to live in separate bedrooms from your spouse. For some reason, this topic seems to ruffle quite a few feathers.
If anyones curious, Im happy to discuss.
I made it a point to quiz my friends about their arrangements you know, just out of nosiness and it struck me that at least 90% of couples I know live like this:
That is, practically no one or almost no one shares the classic marital bed. But why, you ask?
Lets dig a bit deeper into this conundrum:
Based on everything Ive heard, Id say this: having separate rooms from your husband is perfectly normal. In fact, it might even be a bit more than normal. Theres absolutely no reason to make a fuss about it.
Honestly, if peoples way of life, their household quirks, and philosophical musings dont bother anyone else, then they should do whatever works best for them. It doesnt offend my delicate sensibilities. Especially since, judging by the families themselves, no ones kicking up a fuss. Well, not because everything was sunshine and roses, but because sharing one room was a real pain in the backside.
And isnt it grand when a family is blessed with two separate rooms, meaning they can each have their own space and get on marvellously? When people are forced into sharing one room, now thats a proper problem. So really, its all quite good news, friends. Honestly, youve nothing to fret about!
