My relatives from the countryside think Im not very welcoming, but I disagree completely. I actually adore having guests and enjoy hosting them.
However, I dislike surprise visitors and those who expect to stay overnight. I never allow that. Instead, I find them a suitable hotel nearby and call a taxi for them.
Why they seem displeased is beyond me. Im perfectly happy to spend an entire day with them, take care of them, drive them around town, and show them the sights. But only up to a point.
My family fail to understand my reasoning, especially as our flat is quite spacious and could accommodate guests comfortably if we wanted. But that would come at the expense of our own comfort! I once lived in a hostel and have no desire to revisit those daysnot for a week or even a single night. My husband and I arent young anymore, and we prefer our own routines; any deviation is quite taxing for us.
Were used to going to bed early and getting up with the sparrows. Should we be forced to wait around in the morning for our honoured guests to wake up? Also, we both like to enjoy leisurely baths, but with guests in the house, theres always competition for the bathroom. You cant parade around in your dressing gown and curlers in front of guestsit just wouldnt feel right.
Some even suggest bringing their children along, which is simply out of the question. Weve raised our own children, and the sound of crying little ones is an unnecessary burden now.
And another thingI dont like extra people in my kitchen. If someone sleeps over, theyre bound to head straight there in the morning. My relatives always seem ready with unsolicited advice, but I know perfectly well what to cook and how to cook it without their input.
I honestly believe everyone will be far more comfortable in a hotel than trying to squeeze into our home.
