Natalie, Hello! It’s Yana, your future daughter-in-law. I’d love to meet and talk—when and where would be convenient for you? Natalie tenses up, especially at the words “future daughter-in-law.” What’s this news? Vadim never said he was planning to marry her. “Hello, Yana. Today at 6 PM at my place, I’ll be waiting.” “I wonder what she wants to talk about? Is she expecting a baby? Of course. She did it on purpose so Vadim would marry her, we know how this goes. What is he thinking? She’s not our match. Not like Vadim. An architect with a bright future. His own flat, car, handsome, smart. A groom anyone would envy. Any girl would be lucky, but no, he chose this one…” Natalie tidied up the flat and went shopping. She felt uneasy. She’d seen Yana a few times and disliked her from the start. Vadim brought her over to introduce her, then just for tea and a chat. Every time, Natalie told him exactly what she thought of the girl. “Son, aren’t there others? Why her? What’s so good about her? Plain, skinny, small. In my day, men liked very different girls! She’s just not right for you!” “Mum, I love her, and to me she’s the most beautiful! And she cooks divinely! Her borscht is amazing!” Those words stung. He used to praise his mother’s cooking, but now that wonderful girl makes divine borscht. Yana arrived right on time, bringing cakes—meringue baskets. Natalie loved them. “How clever, trying to butter me up…” “Natalie, I’ll be direct. Vadim proposed, and I accepted. He’s waiting for the right moment to tell you. He’s worried you’ll take it badly.” “Of course, dear! Why would I be happy?” “I want to make a deal with you. Please hear me out. I know you raised Vadim alone. You married because of the baby, but a happy family life didn’t work out. Your husband left. My mum raised me alone too, my dad died young. So I know what it’s like to grow up in a single-parent family. You poured your soul and love into your son. Thank you so much. He’s polite, kind, caring. That’s your reward. You have every reason to be proud.” Natalie nodded approvingly. That’s true. It’s her achievement that her son turned out so well. Yana continued. “You dream of your son marrying a beautiful, successful, wealthy girl. And here I am. Small, plain, from a simple family. Not a big salary. Not the best match for your son, in your eyes. Now you’re confused, not sure what to do, how to stop him marrying me, right?” Natalie shrugged and nodded. Exactly. “Here’s what could happen. Vadim won’t listen to you, he’s determined. You’ll try to persuade him. You’ll end up arguing. Of course, you won’t come to the wedding. Your son didn’t listen to you, right?” “Yes, that’s exactly how it’ll be.” “You’ll tell everyone what a bad son he is, how much you did for him and this is your thanks. Some will pity you, some will smile. Meanwhile, we’ll live happily. You’ll ignore us out of spite. I’ll have a baby, Vadim will naturally tell you. But you’ll stubbornly refuse to see your grandchild. You won’t accept our marriage, or our child. My mum will dote on her grandchild, take walks, tell stories, spoil them. She’ll be the favourite grandma in the world. And you’ll sit alone in your flat, watching TV, feeling hurt that life turned out this way, that you’re alone and unwanted. Holidays will be especially lonely. Everyone celebrates with family, but you’re alone again. The resentment won’t let you rest. Your health will suffer, you’ll end up in hospital. Others will get visitors, but only your neighbour and a friend will come to see you. You won’t want to talk to your son and his ‘bad’ wife. In the end, you’ll live your life alone, never knowing how your grandchild grew up, no one will call you grandma, no one to wish you happy birthday. And that will be your choice. Or, things could be different. After I leave, you’ll think it over carefully. And, as a wise and loving mother, you’ll accept your son’s choice, because if he loves me, there must be a reason. You know, I’m not so bad. My colleagues like and value me, my mum adores me, I’m a decent person. I’ll be a good wife and mother. Most importantly, I love your son, and he loves me. When Vadim tells you he’s getting married, you’ll praise him, say you accept his choice. I understand you may never love me, but just simple kindness and tact will be enough. I don’t have warm feelings for you either, but I’m ready to change that. At the wedding, we’ll seat you in a place of honour. You’ll admire your son and maybe me a little. When I have a child, you’ll always be a welcome guest. Our child will have two loving grandmas, and that’s wonderful. I’ll never say a bad word about you, and you won’t about me. We have one common goal—to make Vadim happy. So let’s work together. Think it over and call me so I know what to expect. Thank you for the tea, Natalie, all the best! After Yana left, Natalie sat in her chair by the window and thought. She’s right! That’s exactly how it was and will be! Really, what does it matter if she doesn’t like her future daughter-in-law? Her son will live with her. She’ll argue, try to persuade him—so what? He’ll be upset, but he’ll still get married. She saw how his eyes lit up when he looked at Yana. Even his mother’s borscht doesn’t taste as good to him anymore… What will she gain in the end? Nothing. She’ll be alone with her resentment and worries, while the other grandma dotes on the grandchild. She wants that too. But she won’t get it. Unless… No, that won’t happen if… “Hello, Yana… I accept your deal. I don’t want to sit alone and be sad, I want to be friends and stay close to my son, and that means with you too. And you’ll let me have my grandchild on weekends, right? And one more thing. What do you put in your borscht that Vadim loves so much?” Yana laughed. “Natalie, your borscht is just as good, I promise. But I’ll share the secret—it’s all in the spices. I’m glad you agreed to my deal, it’s best for everyone. Vadim was right when he said you’re a wise and loving mum!” Three years later “Vadim, son, look at Andriyka, how he squints—just like you! What a wonderful boy, I’m so happy to have a grandson! And Yana, thank you for that deal. You were right…” “What deal? First I’ve heard of it!” “Oh, Vadim, Yana and I have our little secrets…” Natalie exchanged glances with her daughter-in-law and they winked at each other conspiratorially.

11 December 2025
Tonight, I wandered restlessly around the sitting room, nerves jangling as I waited for Emma, the woman Oliver claims will be his bride. Shed phoned earlier, her tone firm yet courteous, asking when we might have a proper conversation. Six oclock, I said, though the request unsettled meOlivers never spoken of marriage, and the words future daughter-in-law echoed in my thoughts all day.
I distracted myself by straightening up the house and nipping to Tesco for a few essentials, but the anxiety clung to me. Emmas never been my ideal. Olivers brought her round a handful of times, and after each visit, Id voice my doubts: Son, arent there other girls? What draws you to her? Shes unremarkable, slight, hardly memorable. Back in my day, men fancied a different sort! Oliver would just grin, replying, Mum, I adore her. Shes wonderfuland her beef casserole is unbeatable! That stung; he used to rave about my cooking, but now its Emmas casseroles he cant stop praising.
At six on the dot, Emma appeared, holding a box of Bakewell tartsmy favourite, naturally. I saw through the gesture, but let her in. She got straight to the point. Mrs. Bennett, Ill be honest. Olivers asked me to marry him, and Ive said yes. Hes worried about telling you, afraid youll take it badly.
I answered, Why would I be delighted, dear?
She pressed on, Id like to make a pact. Please hear me out. You raised Oliver alone, married because of the baby, but happiness didnt last. Your husband left. My mum did the sameDad passed away young. I know what its like growing up with just one parent.
She thanked me for raising Oliver so well, crediting me for his kindness and manners. I couldnt help but agree; that much was true.
Emma continued, You always hoped Oliver would marry a beautiful, accomplished girl from a well-off family. Instead, you got meordinary, petite, from modest means, earning little. Not your dream, I know. Now youre lost, wondering how to stop him marrying me, arent you?
I shrugged, admitting as much.
She painted the future: Oliver wont be swayed. Youll try to talk him out of it, but youll quarrel. Youll skip the wedding, feeling left out. Youll tell friends your sons ungrateful, some will sympathise, others will just nod. Meanwhile, Oliver and I will be happy. Youll keep your distance, and when we have a child, youll refuse to meet your grandchild. My mum will dote on him, take him to Regents Park, spoil him rotten. Shell be the favourite grandmother. Youll sit alone in your flat, watching Coronation Street, bitter and forgotten. Christmases will be lonely, your health will falter, and youll end up in hospital. Visitors will be fewjust your neighbour and an old friend. You wont want to see Oliver or his awful wife. In the end, youll live out your days alone, never called Gran, no one to wish you happy birthday. And that will be your choice.
She paused, then offered another path. Or, you could think it over. As a wise, loving mum, youll accept Olivers choiceif he loves me, there must be something good in me. Im not so bad. My colleagues respect me, my mum adores me, and Ill be a good wife and mother. Most importantly, I love your son, and he loves me. When Oliver tells you hes marrying, youll congratulate him and accept his decision. You may never love me, but a bit of courtesy and kindness is enough. I dont feel warmth towards you either, but Im willing to try. At the wedding, youll have pride of place. Youll admire your son, and maybe me a little. When our child arrives, youll always be welcome. Hell have two grandmothers, and thats something special. Ill never speak ill of you, and you wont of me. We both want Olivers happiness. So lets work together. Think it over and ring me, so I know where we stand. Thank you for the tea, Mrs. Bennett. All the best.
After she left, I sat by the window, watching the streetlights flicker. She was right. Thats exactly how things would unfold. What does it matter if I dislike Emma? Olivers the one wholl live with her. I could argue, but hed marry her regardless. Ive seen the way he looks at herhis eyes light up, and even my casserole isnt his favourite anymore.
What would I gain by fighting? Nothing but loneliness, while the other grandmother enjoys the grandchild. I want that too. But I wont have it, unless No, that wont happen if
I picked up the phone. Hello, Emma I accept your proposal. I dont want to end up alone. I want to stay close to my son, and that means Ill have to get along with you. Youll let me have my grandchild on weekends, wont you? And tell me, what do you put in your casserole that Oliver loves so much?
Emma laughed. Mrs. Bennett, your casserole is just as good, I promise. But Ill share my secretits all in the herbs. Im glad you agreed; its best for everyone. Oliver was right when he said youre a wise and loving mum!
Three years slipped by.
Oliver, look at Andrew squintinghes your double! What a smashing boy, Im so lucky to have a grandson! And Emma, thank you for that agreement. You were right
What agreement? First Ive heard of it!
Oh, Oliver, Emma and I have our little secrets
Emma and I exchanged a knowing glance, sharing a conspiratorial wink.
Sometimes, the greatest joy comes from letting go of pride and choosing family.

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Natalie, Hello! It’s Yana, your future daughter-in-law. I’d love to meet and talk—when and where would be convenient for you? Natalie tenses up, especially at the words “future daughter-in-law.” What’s this news? Vadim never said he was planning to marry her. “Hello, Yana. Today at 6 PM at my place, I’ll be waiting.” “I wonder what she wants to talk about? Is she expecting a baby? Of course. She did it on purpose so Vadim would marry her, we know how this goes. What is he thinking? She’s not our match. Not like Vadim. An architect with a bright future. His own flat, car, handsome, smart. A groom anyone would envy. Any girl would be lucky, but no, he chose this one…” Natalie tidied up the flat and went shopping. She felt uneasy. She’d seen Yana a few times and disliked her from the start. Vadim brought her over to introduce her, then just for tea and a chat. Every time, Natalie told him exactly what she thought of the girl. “Son, aren’t there others? Why her? What’s so good about her? Plain, skinny, small. In my day, men liked very different girls! She’s just not right for you!” “Mum, I love her, and to me she’s the most beautiful! And she cooks divinely! Her borscht is amazing!” Those words stung. He used to praise his mother’s cooking, but now that wonderful girl makes divine borscht. Yana arrived right on time, bringing cakes—meringue baskets. Natalie loved them. “How clever, trying to butter me up…” “Natalie, I’ll be direct. Vadim proposed, and I accepted. He’s waiting for the right moment to tell you. He’s worried you’ll take it badly.” “Of course, dear! Why would I be happy?” “I want to make a deal with you. Please hear me out. I know you raised Vadim alone. You married because of the baby, but a happy family life didn’t work out. Your husband left. My mum raised me alone too, my dad died young. So I know what it’s like to grow up in a single-parent family. You poured your soul and love into your son. Thank you so much. He’s polite, kind, caring. That’s your reward. You have every reason to be proud.” Natalie nodded approvingly. That’s true. It’s her achievement that her son turned out so well. Yana continued. “You dream of your son marrying a beautiful, successful, wealthy girl. And here I am. Small, plain, from a simple family. Not a big salary. Not the best match for your son, in your eyes. Now you’re confused, not sure what to do, how to stop him marrying me, right?” Natalie shrugged and nodded. Exactly. “Here’s what could happen. Vadim won’t listen to you, he’s determined. You’ll try to persuade him. You’ll end up arguing. Of course, you won’t come to the wedding. Your son didn’t listen to you, right?” “Yes, that’s exactly how it’ll be.” “You’ll tell everyone what a bad son he is, how much you did for him and this is your thanks. Some will pity you, some will smile. Meanwhile, we’ll live happily. You’ll ignore us out of spite. I’ll have a baby, Vadim will naturally tell you. But you’ll stubbornly refuse to see your grandchild. You won’t accept our marriage, or our child. My mum will dote on her grandchild, take walks, tell stories, spoil them. She’ll be the favourite grandma in the world. And you’ll sit alone in your flat, watching TV, feeling hurt that life turned out this way, that you’re alone and unwanted. Holidays will be especially lonely. Everyone celebrates with family, but you’re alone again. The resentment won’t let you rest. Your health will suffer, you’ll end up in hospital. Others will get visitors, but only your neighbour and a friend will come to see you. You won’t want to talk to your son and his ‘bad’ wife. In the end, you’ll live your life alone, never knowing how your grandchild grew up, no one will call you grandma, no one to wish you happy birthday. And that will be your choice. Or, things could be different. After I leave, you’ll think it over carefully. And, as a wise and loving mother, you’ll accept your son’s choice, because if he loves me, there must be a reason. You know, I’m not so bad. My colleagues like and value me, my mum adores me, I’m a decent person. I’ll be a good wife and mother. Most importantly, I love your son, and he loves me. When Vadim tells you he’s getting married, you’ll praise him, say you accept his choice. I understand you may never love me, but just simple kindness and tact will be enough. I don’t have warm feelings for you either, but I’m ready to change that. At the wedding, we’ll seat you in a place of honour. You’ll admire your son and maybe me a little. When I have a child, you’ll always be a welcome guest. Our child will have two loving grandmas, and that’s wonderful. I’ll never say a bad word about you, and you won’t about me. We have one common goal—to make Vadim happy. So let’s work together. Think it over and call me so I know what to expect. Thank you for the tea, Natalie, all the best! After Yana left, Natalie sat in her chair by the window and thought. She’s right! That’s exactly how it was and will be! Really, what does it matter if she doesn’t like her future daughter-in-law? Her son will live with her. She’ll argue, try to persuade him—so what? He’ll be upset, but he’ll still get married. She saw how his eyes lit up when he looked at Yana. Even his mother’s borscht doesn’t taste as good to him anymore… What will she gain in the end? Nothing. She’ll be alone with her resentment and worries, while the other grandma dotes on the grandchild. She wants that too. But she won’t get it. Unless… No, that won’t happen if… “Hello, Yana… I accept your deal. I don’t want to sit alone and be sad, I want to be friends and stay close to my son, and that means with you too. And you’ll let me have my grandchild on weekends, right? And one more thing. What do you put in your borscht that Vadim loves so much?” Yana laughed. “Natalie, your borscht is just as good, I promise. But I’ll share the secret—it’s all in the spices. I’m glad you agreed to my deal, it’s best for everyone. Vadim was right when he said you’re a wise and loving mum!” Three years later “Vadim, son, look at Andriyka, how he squints—just like you! What a wonderful boy, I’m so happy to have a grandson! And Yana, thank you for that deal. You were right…” “What deal? First I’ve heard of it!” “Oh, Vadim, Yana and I have our little secrets…” Natalie exchanged glances with her daughter-in-law and they winked at each other conspiratorially.
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