I never eat without her
When the ambulance whisked me away, the fear that clenched my chest wasnt the pressure in my head or the dizzy swirl in my eyes. It was for himmy old, faithful companion.
what about Baxter? I managed to ask, standing in the hallway in a nightgown, a grocery bag hanging from one hand. My vision was misty, my legs felt like jelly; all of that seemed trivial compared to the thought of him being alone.
Dont worry, Ill look after him, my neighbour Sarah replied. Hes a calm little chap, a real sweetheart. Nothing complicated. Just top up his bowl and youre sorted.
I nodded, grateful that she was trying to help. Yet a tiny pang of anxiety lingered. Baxter wasnt just a dog; he was something special.
Hes twelve now, a respectable age. He first trotted into my life when I was just learning how to live again after my husbands death. The house had gone eerily quiet, even the kettle no longer sang its familiar whistle. No one called me by name any more.
He arrived as a trembling, fluffy bundle of fear and hope. His previous owners had given him up because he didnt fit into their new routine, and my life at the time was a hollow shell. In that emptiness he became a little light.
From then on we were inseparable. He became my shadow, lying by the front door while I slept, watching me wash up, curling up beside me when I read. We learned each others rhythms as naturally as breathing. He knew my voice; I knew his gaze.
Now Im in a hospital ward, tubes and drip stands, a cold cot and strangers walls. I kept telling myself it would be a day or twotests, a few injections, then discharge.
But the discharge never came. The doctors shook their heads, the blood pressure monitors beeped, the medication drips ticked on.
Lying there, staring at the ceiling, all I could think about was him. How was he?
Every evening I rang Sarah. She told me Baxter was sitting by the door, hardly eating, sometimes whimpering softly when someone passed. He might be missing you, she said. Dont fret. Hes drinking a little water, but the food thats another story.
On the third day Sarah called me herself, voice low as if embarrassed.
Eleanor he hasnt eaten anything for twentyfour hours. No dry kibble, no meat. He just stares at his bowl and walks away. Hes sipping barely any water, just sits by the door like hes waiting for something.
A knot tightened in my chestnot from pain, but from guilt.
Sarah can you put him on speaker? Please.
Why?
Just let him hear me. Maybe hell understand.
She did as I asked, and I spoke, gentle as a mother reading a bedtime story:
Baxter can you hear me? Its me, Mum. I havent gone anywhere. Im just a little farther away, but Ill be back. I promise. Hold on, love. Please eat. Sarahs with you, shes good. Everythings alright, my boy.
A long, heavy pause followed.
Hes looking at the phone, Sarah whispered. Ears perked, tail flickering.
Tears streamed down my cheeks. I pressed the handset to my face, knowing his refusal to eat wasnt a whim. He simply couldnt bear to be without melike a heart missing a beat.
So we lived that way. Me in the ward, him at the door. Every morning a call, every night a voice over the line.
Hang in there, sweetheart. Im right here. Just a little longer.
On the fifth day Sarah called again.
Hes finally eaten. Just a little. Only after hearing your voice. He lingered by the phone, then rose and nudged his bowl. I didnt move a musclewas scared to startle him.
I wept again. In the hospital, tears had become almost routine.
When the doctor finally said, Youre cleared to go home, I nearly burst into tears of joy.
I decided not to call Sarah back. I wanted a surprise.
The house felt different. The lift was out, so I climbed the stairs to the third floor, heart thudding as if it might leap out of my chest.
Baxter lay by the front door, exactly as Sarah had describedthin, weary, fur tousled.
Baxter I whispered.
He lifted his head, stared, and froze.
Its me everythings okay Im home.
He staggered to his feet, wobbling, shuffling toward me. He nudged my hand, then my shoulder, then my chest, and let out a soft whinequiet, not frightening, just a plaintive, doglike sob, as if asking, Did you really come back?
I dropped onto the rug, gathered him into my arms. He flopped onto me, pressed his whole body against mine, refusing to let go.
We sat like that for twenty minutes, just breathing together. When I finally opened the door, his first move was to sniff the floor covering, then he trotted straight to his bowl.
Alright, alright, I hear you! I laughed. Here comes a treat.
I darted to the kitchen, grabbed a tin of his favourite food, halfopened it with one hand while the other clutched the list of the doctors prescriptions. He ate slowly, cautiously, as if fearing I might disappear again.
That night he curled up beside me, right at my sidesomething he never did before; he used to stay by the door.
Now he never leaves my side. Even when I step out to the shop, he trots to the threshold. Even when I go to the bathroom, he perches by the door.
Hes scared. Im scared too.
So before every departure I say, Ill be back soon. Wait for me. He might not understand the words, but he knows one thingIm not vanishing any more.
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